text post from 3 days ago

Barbie Spoilers:

I woke up in the middle of the night with the realization that Barbie initially sets off on a mission to cheer up the 'girl' who was having the existential, 'weird', thoughts but at some point, she abandons the "cheering up" part of that mission. Barbie meets Gloria and her daughter, and she realizes that Gloria was the one who had those thoughts, but there's never a scene where she tries to get Gloria to change her attitude. Barbie sat in that park and she came to terms with her own emotions, and as the movie went on, she continued to experience the ups and downs of being human, of being a woman, and in doing so, she validated Gloria's feelings. Gloria didn't need to change, she didn't need to stop having these thoughts and emotions. She was completely valid having her own existential feelings and processing her feelings through Barbie, like so many people do.


text post from 3 days ago

At first Netflix said, come write for us. We’ll save your cancelled shows and write about whatever niche story you want. Our algorithm says people will watch it!

Then a few years later they said, regardless of our promises or contract obligations we are cancelling shows after two seasons without telling anyone. Turns out no matter how loved a show is, we get less subscriptions after the second season.

How many subscriptions did we bring you? Netflix won’t say.

So writers started writing two season shows. Just give us two seasons, Netflix. Like you promised.

Then Netflix said, oops sorry! Turns out your show didn’t premiere at #1 and the views in the first day weren’t what we wanted so we’re cancelling your second season.

What were the numbers? How many people watched our show? Netflix doesn’t say.

Then, they did something extra special. They started taking shows and splitting their first season into two halves. Inside Job was not two seasons. It was one season split in half.

Oops! Sorry! The second half of your first season didn’t do as well as the first half, so now your show is cancelled!

Why? How many people? How much money? These companies are making cash hand over fist and they refuse to tell people the truth: people loved your show. Loved it. But some corpo exec wanted an infinite money making machine. Do you know how long shows are in production for before you watch them? Years. Like, 5+, even 10+ years. And Netflix gives it less than a week before they decide whether you’re getting cancelled.

Support #WGA Support #SAGAFTRA


text post from 4 days ago

btw it's okay if you can only convince yourself to do things with silly reasons. when i wash my face i narrate a "skincare routine" youtube video in my head. once, a pretty girl once said she was attracted to me while i was moving crates around, and that was my motivation to do yard work today. exercising is a lot easier when i think about how i want to be able to pick up my niece and swing her around even when she's older.

so like if pretending you're doing real-life stardew valley gets you out in the sun, or if making yourself a good meal makes you feel like you're the host of a cooking show, do it! do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself!


text post from 5 days ago

A tall but thin canvas painting on a painted table. The colors are meant to represent the lesbian pride flag, with the red orange at the top and pink at the bottom. The sky fades from red-orange to orange to white, with scattered stars, clouds coming in from the left, and a pink planet on the right. Below the sky is light pink water, washing onto hot pink sand. In the foreground there are some darker pink rocks.ALT

*SOLD*

[ID: A tall but thin canvas painting on a painted table. The colors are meant to represent the lesbian pride flag, with the red orange at the top and pink at the bottom. The sky fades from red-orange to orange to white, with scattered stars, clouds coming in from the left, and a pink planet on the right. Below the sky is light pink water, washing onto hot pink sand. In the foreground there are some darker pink rocks.]

I sold this lesbian pride piece at my local pride event yesterday! I really love how the sky turned out on it. The couple who bought it said they have so many rainbows at their place, but I’m lucky to have my painting be their first lesbian painting!


answer post from 6 days ago
Anonymous asked:

Please, talk to me more about Barbie being aroace.

theartofangirling:

not once, not a single time in 113 minutes of runtime, did Margot Robbie’s Barbie show romantic or sexual interest in Ken—or anyone else, for that matter!

first of all, it’s kind of amazing that there was no romantic storyline whatsoever for a female lead (especially one who’s so often culturally thought of in a pair—Barbie and Ken) in one of the biggest movies of the year.

it also stands out because we see some of the other Barbies paired up with Kens, seemingly romantically, which implies that Barbies CAN be allo, but this particular Barbie isn’t! she explicitly says that she’s not interested in Ken that way!!

and obviously they never say the words “aromantic” or “asexual” in the film bc it’s hollywood and most people don’t really understand what that means anyway. but at least in my mind, a story doesn’t have to have explicit representation in order for me to feel seen and validated by it. if nothing else, Barbie is an incredibly aroace-friendly story, not only because of its lack of romance, but because the main character doesn’t want a relationship and is never questioned about this (other than by Ken, which the narrative resoundingly condemns), or told that she’s supposed to or she should at least give it a try, or any number of the things that aro and ace people hear all the time.

anyway, thanks for coming to my ted talk, and go watch Barbie (2023)